To Have and to Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma

Unlock the transformative journey of parenthood with "To Have and to Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma" by Millwood—a deeply compassionate and insightful reflection on the intertwining of motherhood and marriage. This book serves as a crucial companion for new mothers, addressing the myriad emotions that surface with the arrival of a child. Millwood, a psychologist with proven expertise in couple counseling, delves into attachment theory as it relates to both partners in...

Unlock the transformative journey of parenthood with "To Have and to Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma" by Millwood—a deeply compassionate and insightful reflection on the intertwining of motherhood and marriage. This book serves as a crucial companion for new mothers, addressing the myriad emotions that surface with the arrival of a child. Millwood, a psychologist with proven expertise in couple counseling, delves into attachment theory as it relates to both partners in a family dynamic, capturing their struggles and triumphs. With sincere empathy and relatable anecdotes, she validates the complex feelings of loss, joy, and everything in between that accompany becoming a parent.

The book is not just an emotional lifeline but also an intellectual exploration, brilliantly weaving stories and practical wisdom. Millwood’s insightful narrative reconciles the dual aspects of relationships and parenthood, showing that while motherhood might challenge the existing dynamic, it also presents an opportunity for growth and deeper connection with one's partner. Readers often find themselves quoting Millwood's observations in various discussions—and it's no wonder. Her ability to articulate common struggles with grace creates a sense of belonging for every reader.